Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Busy and Returning to Cave

What a week. I'm so busy this whole week and don't have enough time to update own blog.
The other thing is have own issue that have to be settled. If you have read the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus," by John Gray, this is the time when men go to their caves to cope with stress. It is one of the biggest differences between men and women. When women cope with stress they are overwhelmed and emotionally involved. Men, on the other hand, withdraw, they go to their cave.

A cave for men is not necessarily a place as it is a state of mind. It could be the basement or the garage. It is generally a condition where a man temporarily loses awareness of everything else. There he becomes distant, forgetful, unresponsive and preoccupied. If the man cannot find a solution to his problem he remains stuck in his cave. He is powerless to come out and give any attention to his partner or anyone else for that matter.

Everything should be in complete order in matter of time, he he he.

4 comments:

waliz said...

hi tomyam..dont stress stress ok..?

can u show me where is the cave cos' i need to hide myself there! hehehe...

AziS said...

ye jgn stress...satu hr satu entry pun dh cukup tau utk dibaca...tgh cuti2 leh la nak godek2 blog time keje nanti liat tul tak mcm org lain leh update time keje..sek??? nk mampus kena sekeh ngn bos...mbebel lak pagi2 ni hehehehe (sebab gerai tomyam dh buka balik...huhu)

Ku Ina ~Jentayutiara said...

lapar tomyam la.... jom p Danok.

eTomyam said...

waliz- not stress lah, just figuring something, u can try find at batu cave, he he he,

azis - no stress, but serabut je he he he.

Ku ina - dah serik makan tomyam for time being, 5 hari direct kena tomyam bangkok yng pedas2, sampai sekarang sakit perut tak berapa clear lagi..he he he